When it comes to online dating your messages determine whether you get a date or not. You need to know what to do and say to impress your matches and keep talking to them. But we are all human and make mistakes. A wrong message or behavior may negatively affect your chances of connecting with your potential partners. Hence you have to be careful. Let’s see what those mistakes are and how to avoid them.
Mistake #1: Getting Angry When You’re Ghosted
Yes that sucks. But if she ghosts you there may be other reasons than hating you. She might just be busy or forgetful. You are matched with her because you BOTH liked each other. Instead of giving up on her and sending hate messages be patient and polite.
What to do when you’re ghosted?
*Send a fun message to make fun of the situation but don't go too far.
*Don’t smother her with too many messages. Three messages a day is more than enough.
*Use the love prospecting formula- show her why you are a compatible good match and why she would adore you if she gives a chance.
*Explore our tips to guarantee responses online.
Mistake #2: Talking Too Much About Yourself
When you only speak about yourself all the time you will bore your match and she won’t want to talk anymore. You won’t get any more interesting by speaking about your character your schedule or your cat's diet.
What to do instead?
*Keep her curious by letting her get to know you slowly.
*Always try to learn more about her by asking questions.