We already covered how to start conversations on online dating and one of our tips is using some fun conversation starters on your first message. Instead of just greeting and asking how your match is doing; you will increase your chances of getting a response if you break the ice and say something that is different from millions of other people. So; what are good ice breaker ideas?
First of all; an ice breaker is a way of starting conversations with others. The main purpose is to grab the attention of your matches and delicately force them to reply. You can easily meet new friends; find people with similar values; flirt for free and chat and hang out online with just a little sentence. Now; you know the importance of it; let’s look at the best ice breakers.
1. Use a Joke
Jokes are great when you want to get attention. Sometimes a pick-up line may even work. But; don't use sarcasm or dark humor. Here are some pick-up lines and ice breaker questions to get started:
* Apart from being fantastic; what do you do for a living?
* Can I get your picture? I wanna show Santa what I want for Christmas.
* I am not a photographer...but I can picture us together.
* Hey; are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you; everyone else disappears!
You might find these silly and think there is no way they work. But; when you build new relationships; you can quickly connect people on a personal level if you are courageous enough to show your quirky sides.
According to behavioral psychology; people feel more comfortable and closer with whom they can share their vulnerabilities and guilty pleasures. So; instead of forcing yourself to keep it cool and pretend to be someone else; you can show your quirky side and talk about your guilty pleasures when chatting with people.