Real Life Experiences on How to Attract a Bad Boy

If you are wondering how to get a guy to like you you're in the right place. Browse this content to learn the most effective tips to make him love you especially if he is a bad boy.

Let me guess. You met a guy who is absolutely gorgeus. He makes you feel like butterflies invaded your stomach. You have fun talking and spending time together. Everything seems perfect but then you realize he is a player. He doesn't want any serious relationships and he likes to hang out with many girls at the same time. That feeling sucks because you are just another number for him. You know you need to stay away from him in order not to get hurt but you can't do it no matter how hard you try. His charm pulls you like the strongest magnet you can't even resist.

Well I know the feeling. I've been there. My boyfriend was a player too and at first it was super stressful. But I tamed a bad boy and managed to change him from player to lover. Want to hear its secret? You're in the right place. Here is how to get a bad boy to like you and how to change a player into a boyfriend.

1. Be Social and Independent

Bad boys want girls who are independent and social. I know you don't want to waste one second without him but control your desires. Get social with your friends and prove that you can have fun without him. He will realize that you're not needy and one thing players hate is needy girls. Players and bad boys prioritize their independency so coming off as needy is a number one mistake to avoid.

What makes a player fall and stay in love with you? Stand out. There may be lots of other girls he is seeing but once he understands you are different he will stop searching for others because he won't be able to find what he sees in you. How I did it? I was going outside most of the days with my friends for a drink dinner concert cinema or theather. Sometimes I invited him to have fun with us. I always tried new things such as traveling alone to a country that I haven't been or a new meal and believe me players and bad boys love if you are open to having new experiences. Even the smallest things count. What drives them crazy is the excitement and novelty.

2. Stand Out and Take Charge

While all the other girls do whatever he wants you should not agree everything he says. To keep your bad boy interested you must take charge of the relationship at some point because he is used to controlling everything. A new challenge will catch him by surprise and he will notice that you're no ordinary girl. If he notices that he has full control over you he will lose interest because he has it over many other girls. Know that he may seem to enjoy it but deep down he wants something different. So don't let him to control you all the time. Challenge him often. Be confident have your own opinions and tell them. Start off suggesting small things such as a new cafe and meet there.

3. Get Interested In His Deep Down

Wondering how to make a guy like you? You will get him like you by caring him. Most girls are only interested in his look or superficial things. Bad boys like girls who notice he is a human being with vulnerabilities. So get to know him for real and ask personal questions about his family regrets childhood and weaknesses. He will get uncomfortable and won't want to answer these at first so you need to soften him by telling about your vulnerabilities. He will realize you are someone whom he can share everthing without getting hurt.

Wrap up?

Now you have some understanding of how to make someone fall in love with you especially if he is a player. Bad boys and players get attracted by these and you know some secrets from my real life experiences. For further tips about how to deal with a player and make him love you check out the rest of my daily blogs.